[FEA]: Enable getting headers from CTK or other 1st party libs #832

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cuda.pathfinder

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This is a generalization of #823

Describe the solution you'd like

Possibly:

cuda.pathfinder.find_nvidia_header_dir(libname)
cuda.pathfinder.find_nvidia_header(...)

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